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The three-letter arrears series
Most unpaid fees are not refusals. They are timing. This series gives you three letters, sent on the right dates, in the right tone, so the money comes in and the paperwork holds up if the parent later disputes it.
No email needed, no catch. Print it in black and white at any copy shop. It fits one side of A4.
What it is
The arrears series is three written notices you send to the same parent as one account gets older. Letter 1 is a friendly reminder. Letter 2 is a firm notice with a deadline and an offer of a payment plan. Letter 3 is a final notice that the place will be released on a stated date.
The letters do two jobs at once. They collect money, because most parents pay when they are asked on the day they have money in the account. They also build a dated record, so that if the matter ends in an argument you can show what you told the parent and when.
Timing beats wording. Send on the day the parent is paid, not on the day the fee was due. A parent on the child support grant is usually paid in the first week of the month, but SASSA sets its pay dates month by month and they move, so check the date for that month before you plan the letter. A salaried parent has money on the 25th or the last working day. A letter that lands on the 15th reaches an empty account and teaches the parent to ignore you.
Tone changes at each stage and the change must be visible. Letter 1 assumes she forgot. Letter 2 assumes she is short of money and needs a plan. Letter 3 assumes she has decided not to pay and tells her the exact date the place goes to another child. Never send letter 3 language in letter 1. If you threaten in month one you have nothing left in month three.
Letter 3 rests entirely on the fee agreement the parent signed. Read your own agreement before you write it. If the agreement says nothing about notice or about ending the place, letter 3 has nothing behind it and the agreement is the thing to fix first.
Who asks for it
No government office requires an arrears letter and no department publishes a template for one. This is your own record, written by your centre, based on the fee agreement the parent signed at enrolment.
Three offices end up reading it. The first is your provincial education department, through the district ECD official, if a parent complains that her child was turned away over money. ECD registration and subsidy moved from the Department of Social Development to the Department of Basic Education on 1 April 2022, so that complaint now goes to the district education office, not to the social development office. Anyone who still sends you to the social development office for ECD registration or subsidy is working off old information. Social development still handles some care services that are not ECD programmes, and your health and fire clearances still come from the municipality.
The second is a court, if you decide to claim the money. The Small Claims Court is only open to a person suing in her own name. If the centre is registered as an NPC, an NPO or a company, the claim belongs in the magistrate's court and not in the small claims court. Ask the clerk which court applies to your centre and what the current claim limit is before you spend a day queueing. Whichever court applies, the first question is whether you demanded payment in writing. These three letters are not the formal letter of demand a court will want. Ask the clerk what that demand must say and how it must be delivered.
The third is your own board or management committee, and your auditor if you run as an NPO or NPC. When fee income comes in under budget, or a debt is written off, the three letters are the evidence that the money was chased before it was written off.
One caution. If the child holds an approved subsidised place, speak to your district ECD official before you release that place. The subsidy is paid at R24 per child per day attended, against approved subsidised places rather than against your full enrolment, so removing a child changes both your attendance claim and your allocation.
What must appear on it
- Date the letter was written, in full (4 May 2026, not 04/05)
- Full name of the learner and the class or group
- Full name of the parent or guardian named in the fee agreement
- Centre name, physical address and contact number
- Which notice this is: reminder, second notice, or final notice
- A month-by-month account table showing month, amount due, amount paid, balance
- The total outstanding in rands, stated once, in figures
- The date and amount of the last payment received, if there was one
- The current month's fee and its due date, stated as not included in the total
- Banking details and the exact payment reference the parent must use
- What you are asking for, in one sentence
- The calendar date by which you are asking for it
- What happens after that date, in plain words, on letters 2 and 3 only
- An offer to sign a written payment arrangement, on letters 2 and 3
- A named person to speak to, with a phone number and the hours she is available
- Signature of the principal or the person sending the letter
- A receipt line the parent signs and dates when the letter is handed over
- A witness name and signature for the case where the parent refuses to sign
- How it was delivered and on what date: by hand, WhatsApp, email or post
A filled-in example
The family
Lethabo Mahlangu, Grade R group at Little Acorns Educare Centre in Kabokweni. Fee R360 a month, due on the 7th. His mother, Nomsa Mahlangu, receives the child support grant and pays from it. The April 2026 fee was not paid.
Lethabo does not hold an approved subsidised place. He is a full fee-paying learner. If he held a subsidised place, letter 3 does not go out until you have spoken to the district ECD official.
When each letter goes out
| Parent's income | Money arrives | Send the letter on |
|---|---|---|
| SASSA child support grant | Usually the first week. SASSA sets the date month by month, so check that month's date | The grant pay day itself, before 09:00, at drop-off |
| Salary | The 25th, or the last working day | The 25th, or the last working day if the 25th falls on a weekend |
| Piece work or informal income | No fixed date | A date the parent names herself, written down and agreed |
One letter a month. Letter 1 at about 30 days, letter 2 at about 60, letter 3 at about 90. Never two letters in the same week. That reads as harassment and it makes the parent stop opening anything from you.
Check the school calendar before you fix the date. Do not hand over a final notice during a closure. Nobody is at the gate and the parent can honestly say she never got it. In this example letter 3 fell due in early July, which lands in the winter closure, so it was held over to the first week of the new term.
Letter 1: friendly reminder, sent Monday 4 May 2026
Tone: she forgot. No consequence mentioned. Under 120 words. Handed over at morning drop-off with a smile.
Little Acorns Educare Centre
12 Mkhize Street, Kabokweni, Mpumalanga
Tel 013 000 0000 or 072 000 0000
4 May 2026
Ms N Mahlangu
Parent of Lethabo Mahlangu, Grade R group
FEE REMINDER
Good day Ms Mahlangu
This is a reminder about Lethabo's April fee.
| Month | Due | Paid | Balance |
|---|---|---|---|
| April 2026 | R360 | R0 | R360 |
| Total outstanding | R360 |
Please pay R360 by Friday 8 May 2026.
Capitec Business, Little Acorns Educare, account 1051 234 567, reference MAHLANGU LET. Cash can be paid at the office between 07:00 and 08:30 or 14:00 and 16:30 and you will be given a receipt.
If you have already paid, please send me the proof and I will correct the account the same day.
Thandeka Sibiya
Principal
Signature: ______________________
Received by parent: ______________________ Date: ____________
Letter 2: second notice, sent Thursday 4 June 2026
Tone: firm and warm at the same time. A deadline appears. A payment plan is offered before any consequence is named. This is the letter that recovers most accounts.
Little Acorns Educare Centre
12 Mkhize Street, Kabokweni, Mpumalanga
Tel 013 000 0000 or 072 000 0000
4 June 2026
Ms N Mahlangu
Parent of Lethabo Mahlangu, Grade R group
FEE ACCOUNT: SECOND NOTICE
Good day Ms Mahlangu
Lethabo's account is now two months behind.
| Month | Due | Paid | Balance |
|---|---|---|---|
| April 2026 | R360 | R0 | R360 |
| May 2026 | R360 | R0 | R360 |
| Total outstanding at 4 June 2026 | R720 |
The June fee of R360 falls due on 7 June 2026 and is not included in the figure above.
Please do one of these two things by Friday 12 June 2026.
1. Pay R720 into Capitec Business, Little Acorns Educare, account 1051 234 567, reference MAHLANGU LET.
2. Come to the office and sign a written payment arrangement setting out what you will pay and on which dates.
I would rather have an arrangement I can rely on than an empty account. If R720 at once is not possible, tell me what is possible. We will write it down and we will both sign it.
If I have not heard from you by 12 June 2026 I will send you a final notice about Lethabo's place.
I am at the office from 07:00 to 16:30, Monday to Friday. You can also phone me on 072 000 0000.
Thandeka Sibiya
Principal
Signature: ______________________
Received by parent: ______________________ Date: ____________
Letter 3: final notice, sent Monday 3 August 2026
Tone: calm, dated, no anger. Every fact is checkable. It names one date and one consequence. It also leaves the door open, because the goal is the money and the child, not the exit.
Before you send a letter like this one, read the fee agreement the parent signed and check that it allows you to end the place on written notice. If it does not, fix the agreement first. And if the learner holds an approved subsidised place, speak to the district ECD official before the letter goes out.
Little Acorns Educare Centre
12 Mkhize Street, Kabokweni, Mpumalanga
Tel 013 000 0000 or 072 000 0000
3 August 2026
Ms N Mahlangu
Parent of Lethabo Mahlangu, Grade R group
FINAL NOTICE: FEE ACCOUNT AND PLACE
Good day Ms Mahlangu
| Month | Due | Paid | Balance |
|---|---|---|---|
| April 2026 | R360 | R0 | R360 |
| May 2026 | R360 | R0 | R360 |
| June 2026 | R360 | R150 | R210 |
| July 2026 | R360 | R0 | R360 |
| Total outstanding at 3 August 2026 | R1 290 |
Last payment received: R150 on 12 June 2026. Thank you for that payment. The August fee of R360 falls due on 7 August 2026 and is not included in the figure above.
On 4 June 2026 I asked you to pay in full or to sign a payment arrangement by 12 June 2026. The R150 came in on 12 June. No arrangement was signed and nothing further has been received. The centre was closed for the winter holiday, so this notice reaches you now that we are back.
This is a final notice. Please pay R1 290, or sign a written payment arrangement at the office, by Monday 17 August 2026.
If neither happens by 17 August 2026, Lethabo's place will be released on Tuesday 18 August 2026 and offered to a child on the waiting list. Lethabo attends as normal up to and including Monday 17 August 2026. Nobody will turn him away at the gate.
Two things you should know. Releasing the place does not cancel the account. R1 290 stays payable and I may hand it over for collection. And Lethabo's records and progress report are yours either way. I will not hold a child's records over money.
You can still stop this. Come and see me before 17 August. An arrangement you can keep is worth more to me than a place I have to fill.
Thandeka Sibiya
Principal
Signature: ______________________
Received by parent: ______________________ Date: ____________
If the parent will not sign, a witness signs here: ______________________ Name: ____________ Date: ____________
Delivered by hand at drop-off, 03 August 2026, 07:40. Same text sent on WhatsApp to 082 000 0000 at 07:52. The signed paper copy is the record. The WhatsApp ticks are not proof that she read it.
What happened
Ms Mahlangu came to the office on 12 August 2026 and signed an arrangement: R330 on 4 September, R320 on 5 October, R320 on 4 November, R320 on 4 December, on top of the running fee. Lethabo kept his place. That outcome is the normal one when the letters go out on the right dates. Letter 3 is a real notice, not a bluff, and parents can tell the difference.
Names, dates and amounts are invented. Use your own centre's details.
What happens at inspection if you do not have it
An official is unlikely to ask for your arrears letters on a routine visit. They matter the day a parent walks into the district office and says her child was sent home over money.
Here is what actually happens then. The district ECD official phones or arrives, usually without an appointment. She asks for the child's file, the attendance register and any written communication with the parent. If you produce the three letters, dated, with the parent's signature on the receipt line, the conversation is short. She can see the parent had two months of written notice, a named deadline and an offer of a payment plan. The official can see this is a fee dispute and not a child protection matter. That usually ends the visit. If the child holds a subsidised place she will still want to know how you handled it.
With nothing in writing it goes the other way. It is your word against hers, and the official has a child in front of her who was turned away. The realistic outcome is not closure. It is a written compliance notice or a letter listing what you must correct, with a date to report back. The notice names its own date. Ask the official to confirm that date and what she wants to see, in writing, before she leaves. You will be told to put your fee and arrears process in writing and issue it to every parent. If you draw the subsidy, the official will compare your attendance register against the days the child was actually there. A day a child was turned away is not an attended day and must not appear as one. That is weeks of night-time admin over a R1 290 account.
Two mistakes make it worse and both are avoidable. The first is turning the child away at the gate in the morning with no prior written notice. The mother has already left for work. The child has nowhere to go, and for that day the problem is yours, not hers. The second is naming the parent in public, on the noticeboard or in the class WhatsApp group. That is a POPIA problem rather than a fee problem. Sending a private reminder to the parent you hold a contract with is ordinary processing. Publishing who owes what to other parents is not, and she can complain to the Information Regulator whether or not she owes you the money.
Honest summary: these letters do not protect you from an inspection. They stop a complaint from turning into an investigation.
Common questions
What date should each letter actually go out?
Send on the parent's pay day, not on the fee due date. A parent on the child support grant is usually paid in the first week, but SASSA sets the date month by month and it moves, so check that month's date and hand her the letter at drop-off on the day, before 09:00. A salaried parent is paid on the 25th or the last working day, so send it then. Space the three letters roughly 30, 60 and 90 days after the missed fee. One letter a month. Two letters in one week reads as harassment and she stops opening anything you send. Check the school calendar too. A notice handed over during a closure reaches nobody.
Can I refuse to let the child in until the parent pays?
Not on the morning, with no notice. The mother has already left for work and the child is standing at your gate with nowhere to go. That is the single situation that turns a fee dispute into a complaint at the district office. You may end the enrolment on written notice if the fee agreement the parent signed provides for it. Read your own agreement first. If it says nothing about notice or ending the place, letter 3 rests on nothing and you should fix the agreement before you send it. If the child holds a subsidised place, speak to the district ECD official first. Give a named date, let the child attend up to that date, and hand over his records whether or not the account is settled.
Can I add interest or a late payment penalty?
Only if the fee agreement the parent signed says so, in plain rands, before the debt arose. A charge she never agreed to gives her something to argue about and weakens an account you would otherwise win. In practice the interest is not worth it. A R720 account at any sensible rate earns you a few rand a month and costs you the parent's goodwill. There is a second reason to leave it alone. Once you charge interest or a late fee on an overdue account, that account can fall under the National Credit Act, which brings rules you do not want to manage over R720. Ask an accountant before you add any charge.
Is WhatsApp good enough, or must the letters be printed?
WhatsApp counts as written and the timestamp is useful. Do not treat the ticks as proof she read it. A parent can switch read receipts off, and a tick shows the message reached a phone, not that a person saw it. Use WhatsApp for letters 1 and 2. Letter 3 should be on paper, handed over, and signed for on the receipt line, with the same text sent on WhatsApp so you hold two records. If she will not sign, a staff member signs the witness line and you note the date and time.
The parent keeps promising to pay and never does. What now?
Write the promise down the same day and send it to her in two lines. For example: you said you will pay R400 on 25 June, I have noted it. That converts a corridor conversation into a dated record and it stops the argument about what was said. If she breaks a written arrangement, do not restart the series. Go straight to letter 3, and reference the broken arrangement by date and amount inside it.
Zande keeps each learner's balance by month, produces the stage 1, stage 2 and stage 3 letter with the account table already filled in, and records the date each one was sent and to which number.
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